…Teach our children boundaries, without teaching shame?
…Unlearn shame without making boundary mistakes since we don’t really know where they’re supposed to be?
…Teach our children to make good choices and that it’s ok to make bad choices because that’s how we learn? But, you know, don’t make bad choices on purpose…..
…look abusers in the eye and tell them THEY are doing wrong?
…how do we not?
…expect teenagers and adults to make good choices (learn from bad choices) without giving them times to practice as children?
…teach girls they are equal without belittling boys?
…let love win when we hide hatred in the guise of loving God?
…see the signs?
…stop the violence?
…feed the people?
…stop following blindly?
…learn to love to learn and break free from the instant gratification feedback loop?
…fuel positive forward motion with the abuse from others but let go of the pain?
…keep letting profit-making companies run our lives?
…look past the ugly, walk into no man’s land, just shake hands and move forward?
…finally just love ourselves, our bodies, and allow others to do the same without any issues?
…stop wanting to be ourselves while ridiculing others for being themselves?
…stop taking everything personally and reacting defensively?
…allow ourselves and others to look past what we were taught, and whether we agree or not, try to see another point of view.
Because we really need to and we need to help each other.
So how do we?